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How to Learn a Language the Lazy Way

Not your average ‘learn French in 90 days’ article.

Leo Carvalho
3 min readDec 7, 2019
Port Royal, South Carolina illustration from Grand voyages (1596) by Theodor de Bry (1528–1598). Original from The New York Public Library. Digitally enhanced by rawpixel.

Learning a language is tricky because you always end up thinking there is one special trick you have to do, study grammar points for six hours a day and vocabulary for ten, then spend the next eight hours on speaking practice. A surefire way to learn, all you have to do is: give up on everything else in your life.

That’s not fun. And if you’re a lazy guy like me, it’s not going to work.

Language learning is first and foremost about understanding and engaging with a language. You can study grammar points and vocabulary all day and still struggle when someone finally comes up to and asks ‘Posso pegar essa cadeira?” You’re at a loss even though you’ve spent the last 5000 hours of your life studying a language.

Put your brain on stand-by mode

How about you watch Netflix for a bit? Turn off everything related to your native language and what a show completely in your target language, with subtitles in your target language too. Give up on understanding things 100% all the time. Lower your standards, try to see if 40% understanding is enough for you to get the big picture.

I’m not the first person to say how much more fun it is to binge-watch Terrace House…

Leo Carvalho
Leo Carvalho

Written by Leo Carvalho

Writing about programming and the life of a developer, with some other things sprinkled in between

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There is only one way to really learn a language (and this is from experience) and that is to speak it. Preferably every day. Either to a native, or to someone who speaks the target language well, or even (yes, and this might be weird) to yourself…

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Helpful advice. I’m learning Dutch right now. I’ve read that adults are just as capable of learning another language as children it’s just that we’re afraid to speak it — afraid of making mistakes. Luckily my boyfriend is Dutch and I can practice every day with him.

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You’ve hit the nail on the head Leo — it’s all about “engagement” with the language and particularly with the person in front of us. When we’re fully present and just totally focused on the person we’re communicating with, instead of up in our heads…

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